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EMBARRASSED BY MY RACE

Today we will meet men and women who don't identify with the race they were born into. They feel uncomfortable with their ethnic looks and even try to pass for another race. We'll meet a black woman, Shelley, who despises her own race. When she looks in the mirror she refuses to see a black woman. She says black people are "ghetto". Shelley will not date a black man because she fears reproducing a child of her race. She has undergone multiple plastic surgeries so she can look less black. We'll also meet an Asian woman, Kyounga, who had Asian blepharoplasty (Asian eyelid surgery) so she could look more western. After years of being teased and called "chinky," she believes the surgery will make her more attractive. Dr. Lee, who performed the surgery on her, will show us her procedure. David is a bi-racial man, who was born to a black father and Israeli mother. He has passed as a white man for years. He felt that being white meant that he would have everything that he wanted in life and being black would hinder that.

For more information on Full Circle Confidential counseling center, please visit www.fullcircleconfidential.org

For more information on Charles S. Lee, M.D., please visit www.AsianCosmeticSurgery.com

For more information on David Matthews and "Ace of Spades: A Memoir," please visit www.henryholt.com

Today's Guests

  • Shelley: Shelley despises her own race

  • Rashida: She is Shelley's friend

  • Kyounga: She recently had Asian blepharoplasty (upper eyelid surgery) to give her a more western look

  • Dr. Lee: He performed the surgery on Kyounga

  • David: He is bi-racial

  • Robin Givens : She is an actress and author of the new book "Grace Will Lead Me Home"

  • Nicola Black-Singleton, LCSW: She is a licensed clinical social worker who coaches and counsels women who have and are trying to resolve a wide range of conflicts

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